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By Loni Harmon, LCSW aka The Dating Counselor Falling in love can feel like flying! It can be thrilling, beautiful, and also...a little bit terrifying! But staying in love? That’s an entirely different skill. Healthy, lasting relationships aren’t built on chemistry alone, they evolve through stages, each one revealing a new layer of connection and commitment. Let’s break down the four main stages of an exclusive relationship , what you can expect in each one, and how to move

Dating can be exciting yet intimidating. Many people struggle with self-doubt and nervousness when meeting someone new. The good news is that confidence is a skill you can develop. With the right mindset and practical strategies, you can boost your dating confidence and enjoy more meaningful connections. This guide will walk you through expert tips to help you feel more self-assured and relaxed on your dating journey. Why Boost Dating Confidence Matters Confidence plays a cru

Why Online Dating is So Exhausting (And What to Do About It)

Building strong relationships is essential for a fulfilling life, whether they be friendships, family ties, or romantic partnerships....

Recognizing a man’s true intentions early on doesn’t require overanalyzing every text it just takes tuning into your intuition and watching how he shows up

In the early stages of dating, it can be hard to tell if a man is just enjoying the moment or seeing real future potential with you. Use these journal prompts to help you discern.

journal prompts to help you deepen your clarity, reconnect with your worth, and date without abandoning yourself.

Bridging the modern dating gap between men and women. Mindset shifts for women.

How to Be Nice and  Attractive You've probably heard the saying, "Nice guys finish last." Maybe you've even felt  it firsthand—watching...

How to Stay Calm & Stop Overthinking in Dating